Since 2010 • Community-first
Out Military — The Gay Military Network since 2010
A respectful space for active-duty service members, veterans, and supporters.
Built for connection, memory, and belonging — without politics or performance.
What this is
- A long-running community with real history.
- Active-duty, veterans, and supporters.
- A space for memory, respect, and belonging.
- Low-pressure participation — read, reflect, or share.
What this isn’t
- Not a political organization.
- Not a debate arena.
- Not performative or sensational.
- Not dismissive of lived experience.
“Some of us served quietly. Some of us carried what we couldn’t say out loud. This is the first place I’ve felt seen without having to explain myself.”
— Out Military member
How to participate
You don’t need to tell your whole story. Many members start by sharing
a year, a branch, or simply reading along. Participation here is on your terms.
Where the conversation happens
Out Military is most active on Facebook, where members share memories,
experiences, and support one another.